Wednesday, November 19, 2008

Disappointment...

Economy down again.Don noe how many ppl gg to be retrended. End of year, every parents are thinking how to keep their job for surviving. Buying of books, uniforms, school bus fee, school fee etc.. Headache.. Searching for job but in no vain.. Life getting harder for us the low-income family. Especially to those the single parent. Really hard on them. If the ex-partner is kind enough to pay up the maintenance fee, life wun be that hard to the single parent. But sad to say, most ex-partners are heartless. Never pay maintenance money, fine. But still wanna to make the person who is looking after the children of their life hard.

Have a story to share with you all. My friend's children have been award the cdac bursary. Is the school help them to apply. When my friend's ex-partner knew about it, he made a big fuss of it. Threatening her on cancelling her long term pass, chased her out of the house, making ugly remarks, vent his stupid anger on the kids, talk nonsense infront of the kids about their mother etc... Now, even loanshark write notice on their block staircase to chase after the money he owed. Letting the children stay in fear, making this poor mother to run up n down these few days to apply for long term pass so she can continue to stay n look after her children. HDB is going to take back the house as he did not pay for so many months, i should said is years. And expect the poor lady to help him pay. He even very ya ya tell her that he will not give the maintenance money to her and he purposely one. What kind of man he is?? Just because he is a Singaporean and my friend is a Malaysian, he can anyhow bully him? Why my surrounding have all these kind of stupid, idiotic men?That include my ex-partner too.

An advice to the men, don push the women too far. When they turn their back to fight back, doesn't mean that they will lose.