Presents from Alvin's parents

Last Sunday Alvin and me bring the kids to visit his parents and my kids stayed overnight at his parents' place as Monday 06/07/09 is holiday for students. His mom gave me a pair of gold ear-rings on Sunday and his dad gave me a gold necklace yesterday night. She told me these are for her 2nd daughter-in-law. I feel very happy coz i can see that they really accept me and my kids. They are the only boyfriend's parents gave me presents and the presents is not cheap. Even my ex-husband's father never give me any. I really feel grateful and touched by this. Thank you alot PA & MA (Alvin's parents). This is what his mon asked me to address them. happy.... But I feel Alvin still not ready for marriage. We did talk about this and he asked me don't give him stress. Give him some time. So i keep quiet. Not only he feel stress, i do feel stress oso. All his relatives, parents and friend keep asking us. Alvin only said he did proposed, is i rejected him. Argh...He said like that he win le coz all eyes will start to look at me. Sometimes i answered till i don't know how to answer. Tell them what.. Alvin not ready so how to marry?!?! Like i very desperate to marry off... -.-'